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What are the odds?

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“Of all the gin joints in all the towns of the world, she walks into mine.”

What are the odds? Or as more colorfully said by Bogart in Casablanca, “Of all the gin joints in all the towns of the world, she walks into mine.”

I was in the very last row of the one hour, 40-minute flight, when my seatmate came aboard. He was dressed as and looked every bit the part of a tall, 30-something businessman and I’m sure I seemed to be exactly as I am, a grandmother type heading home from a family visit—in this case, a baby shower in Chattanooga. His business, as it turned out, was as an ecologist and in my other life I was a church lady who wrote books.

“You may be surprised to know,” I offered, “but I remember learning ‘ecology’ as a vocabulary word in my freshman year of college.”

He was nice enough to raise his eyebrows in surprise, presumably that I could be that old. I quickly explained, "That was only 50 years ago--give or take, but we weren't familiar with the term, even so. Hard to believe. So much has changed since then and in such a relatively short time.”

He then told me a bit of his story, a Doctorate in Ecology from the University of Connecticut and his current work planting and restoring sea grass in coastal areas. It was a fascinating process, a genius idea of how to effectively plant the seeds of sea grass underwater. They do it by gluing seeds onto clams, buckets and buckets of clams, six seeds per shell, and then they row out and dump the clams into the water. The clams float blissfully downward, happy to be where they belong, and wiggle their way into the silt and sand that is their home. In so doing, they plant the sea grass!

I laughed in delight. “Oh my,” I said, “that is so clever! I remember my very first venture into marine biology. I was in my rubber boots, mucking around in the tidal flats off Mamacoke Island with the rest of my classmates from Connecticut College.”

“I was just there two days ago!” he said in startled surprise. “It was students from Conn who glued the seeds onto the shells, and it was right there off Mamacoke that we dropped the clams into the water!”

He got out his phone and pulled up pictures taken across the highway from the college campus and just a half mile from my childhood home. The tidal flats off Mamacoke Island. I knew that shoreline, I knew the shape of those hills. We sat, shoulder to shoulder, stunned and silent, staring at the screen before us. What are the odds?

This flight, however, was not yet done with us. In the kindness of reciprocity, he asked me about what I do. I told him about my years of working in the Catholic Church. Oh yes, he was Catholic, though Episcopalian now. I told him of my love for Scripture, of writing about the women of Scripture, my current online ministry of retreats and Scribbles. He began to spin the story of his own faith journey which is only his to tell, but the back and forth of our lives was one Mamacoke moment after another.

We had begun our slow descent into XNA.

“Do you know what ‘thin places’ are in Celtic spirituality?” he asked me. “You know, those places where it all comes together? The elements of sea, air, and land? These are the places where this world and the other world also come together. The distinction, the veil that separates them, becomes thinner. We are more able to move between them.”

“Oh, yes,” I smiled. “I know exactly what you mean.” I paused for a moment and turned to look more directly at him. “That is why you do what you do, isn’t it?”

“Yes, when I’m out there, I feel like anything is possible, like I could reach out and touch another world.”

The sun was starting to set, one of those spectacular mid-America sunsets that sets the sky ablaze. The red glow of the sun’s going flooded the interior of the plane in pink, though most eyes were too fixed on devices to notice.

For a moment, I closed my eyes, still seeing a wash of color behind my lids. I let his words settle in, like clams drifting downward into the sand.

“I wonder if planes are not a kind of thin place too,” I said. “Here we are at 30,000 feet looking down with a God’s eye view of the world. Everyone here has come from somewhere and is heading somewhere. For this moment our paths have crossed. We have come together. We will soon scatter again, but for right now, the possibility exists of encountering, of awareness, of something holy.”

He smiled at me. “What are the odds?”

“Yes,” I said. “What are the odds?”

Blessings on your Lenten journey just begun.

Blessings on your Lenten journey just begun.

May your path follow the lead of Christ. May you grow in awareness of where God leads and in compassion for others along the way. Let us stay the course, my friends, and I will meet you on the Way to the Cross. I am looking forward to Good Friday and the retreat I am leading with RETREAT, REFLECT, RENEW. Please plan now on joining us.

"This Good Friday let us be intentional about setting aside time to meditate on Christ's Passion.

"This Good Friday let us be intentional about setting aside time to meditate on Christ's Passion. Join us for WITNESSES ON THE WAY, a communal, prayerful reflection on the people and the events of that day. From Jesus’ sentencing before Pilate to his being laid in the tomb, various individuals are a part of his journey. During our time together each of us will be given one of these witnesses as a way to enter into the story with the eyes and heart of someone who was there. Together we will learn about and share our witnesses using Scripture, quiet reflection, prayer, group sharing, and creative process. We will close our time together by gathering our stories into the larger narrative of the Passion, praying our way to the cross and tomb. Please reserve Friday, April 18th, 9 am to 12:30 pm, Pacific time."

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WITH ONE ACCORD

Many of you, I know, have become regular readers of WITH ONE ACCORD, the online quarterly journal from Magdala Colloquy. I have recommended this resource to you in the past and often linked you to issues that contain one of my articles. Always their offerings are thought-provocative end uplifting. The topic of the Winter Issue is "Prophecy," and I recommend it highly. Here's the link: WITH ONE ACCORD. Scroll down to the color picture and click to open.

Many of you, I know, have become regular readers of WITH ONE ACCORD

Responses from Readers...

  • And sometimes, compassion for ourselves is outside of any conscious thought. A great read in this Scribbles post. Blessings on your journey, Alice (Ah, yes, how often it is to ourselves we most need to extend compassion. God is not less insistent in that regard - Kathleen)
  • I've finally gotten up to my computer today after seven months of ...being in facilities until I came home for Christmas on dec 20...Why you haven't heard from me. Yikes! Even typing is a challenge sitting in a wheel chair. But wanted you to know I appreciate reading your piece. First scripture I’ve gotten to read in months! Love, Libby (Love back to you, Libby. So grateful you are back and look forward to your usual shared insights as your energy returns. - Kathleen)
  • I found the comparison between Jonah and Christ very interesting. I've believed for many years that the NT is concealed in the OT, and the OT is revealed in the NT. The clue for me should have happened years ago when it's written that Jonah was in the whale for 3 days, since 3 is a significant number. - Karen. (Good catch my scholarly friend. - Kathleen)
  • Loved Patricia Hampl's reflection on Jonah. I had always wondered about the odd conclusion of that book. I think Hampl was right on. And during these tumultuous days, compassion is a tough sell! Sulking under a tree is more tempting... - Jan (Yes, sulking is mighty tempting. But as my son has pointed out to me, "it's overrated." In other words, it's okay to visit but not to live there! Hampl actually makes it even more convincing in her telling as she points out the overlooked detail of the sailors' compassion upon Jonah, their reluctance to throw him overboard, their willingness to pray, etc. They serve as foils to Jonah's obstinacy. - Kathleen)
  • Loved this!!!! These days, I must MUST re-evaluate my compassion. Yes. Easier for animals these days. Blessings. Keep up the great work!!!! Lucille
  • I see now that the first three chapters of Jonah are very much for Sunday School kids But that last chapter is for grown-ups. I don't really want good for my enemies and would rather spite myself than see them do well. It seems God will have none of that! - George

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