WHAT MATTERS
I look back and think my eight-year-old self basically got it right. It's about love and the people you love most. It's especially about the love you feel when those people die. You can have all the faith in the world and believe they are now happy in heaven with God, but you can still miss them--a lot. After they die, you have memories. Ideas, even messages, visit you about what they would have thought, or said, or suggest you do. There can be days when they are so present to you, alongside you like a breeze or a melody, you can almost reach out and touch them, though you can't make those days happen, no matter how hard you try. Those days are gift, pure and simple, and oh, so sweet. While your spirit may be at peace, your body can still ache for the hand to hold, the familiar face, sound of voice, the feel of skin.
The thing about this Assumption feast is that it is saying Jesus and Mary felt that way too. Jesus missed her and wanted her with him, all of her, her body and her soul. Just like us. And what happened was the best reunion ever, better than all the aunts and uncles and in-laws at a wedding, better than all the cousins and kin at a summer barbeque. This was embrace that said you are home for good, you are mine forever. You will never have to say goodbye again.
And if you sit and think about it long enough--what the Assumption means--think about it even when you're back outdoors in your dungarees, think about it for so many years that you get to a time when nobody even says "dungarees" any more, then you realize, you remember. You remember that every Sunday we say it. "We believe in the resurrection of the body." Our bodies. It seems this reunion is not meant for just Jesus and Mary. We get to do that too. It will be real and it will be ours, just like for them.
Spiritual Practices to Help Cultivate Peace in Your Day
Saturday, Sept 23rd, 2023
Online via Zoom
9-3 Pacific / 11-5 Central / 12-6 Eastern
Cost: $50 / Early bird @ $40 by 8/28/23
Gran Noticia! / Big News!
Muchas Gracias to the Fellowship of Christian Women who used NEVER ON SUNDAY as their book of the year last year, 2022-23. It was a great success and I had the added benefit of meeting many of their members online providing some online sessions and author Q&A's. This is my second partnership with FCCW as they used my first study, SISTERS IN SCRIPTURE, in 2013.
I cannot speak highly enough of the ministry they provide for women in the Catholic Church. They were founded in year by whose vision was Their membership has grown to 400 women in 26 parishes spread throughout the western states of WA, CA, AZ, and TX. As their numbers grew, so did the number of Spanish-speaking women who joined their community. The leadership of FCCW has done something quite remarkable in providing a common space for Catholic women, both Hispanic and Anglo. In response to that diversity, they translated NEVER ON SUNDAY for their members and debuted the use of both NEVER ON SUNDAY and NUNCA EN DOMINGO.
Now this is available as a bi-lingual resource for faith communities looking to provide that same common ground for faith sharing, bible study, and spiritual growth. The Spanish version has been professionally edited and both versions are now available in a special 8.5 x 11" Study Edition which allows ample space for notetaking and for recording your response to reflection questions.
Both these new study editions will be available September 1, 2023. I just wanted my faithful readers to be the first to know. While not many of you may be in need of a Spanish bible study, I would ask you, as partners in ministry, to consider any communities or parishes where this might be a valuable resource. In the generous spirit of FCCW who provided the translation, may others be blessed as well by our combined efforts. Please Contact me if you have information or ideas.
Prayer / Poem for Today
This poem played in mind as I wrote of my mother teaching me to float:
"Put your head back. Arch your back, Relax, stretch out your arms. I have a hold of you." I could feel her fingers beneath me as I occasionally lifted free with the movement of the waves. To discover that the water can support you is a transcendent moment. Mom never broke the spell; her voice was calm, gentle, persuasive. If you do it right, you don't even know when it happens; it just does. (WHY THESE WOMEN, p. 21).







